About Jewel



Hi! I’m Jewel, and I've been living with a kidney transplant for three years. In May 2013, my dad graciously donated his kidney to me, then walked me down the aisle on June 15, 2013,  to marry my best friend.  

Vicki Grafton Photography

I Love… cooking everything, kidneys, desserts, families, Inova Transplant Center, food that's not in boxes, nurses, early detection, husbands, volunteering, National Kidney Foundation, living donors, organized pill boxes, deceased donors, traveling, HOPE, cherishing each moment, Jesus, keepin it real, and cats.

I Loathe… too much salt, high blood pressure, edema, people telling me to "smile," waking up too late, cats who knock over pill bottles and glasses, inconvenient genetics.

 
I Write…about living with kidney disease, living with a transplanted kidney, being pregnant with a transplanted kidney, living with a chronic condition, life after having a miscarriage, FSGS, waiting for a kidney transplant, low-sodium lifestyles, faith, being married to a healthy person, miracles, fears, hopes, dreams, God, loving my family, and loving life.


New to the blog?  Here's what happened!

In December 2012, my husband (then fiance) and I had our first consultation with a kidney transplant coordinator.  
Kidney Transplant?  'I'm Lovin It!' 


In January, I was unofficially (then officially) added to the organ transplant waiting list for a kidney.
Approved!  And an ABO Surprise. 


My sister tried to be my donor...
Interview with a Vampire...or Sister


But things didn't really work out.
Real Life, Fantasy, and Optimism


Meanwhile, I got sicker and sicker as my kidneys got worse and worse.
The End of the Road

I made preparations to start dialysis.
10 Things, One Tube

And right before my first dialysis appointment, I got a donor!  My dad!
When A Door Closes, A Dad Knocks It Down

Transplant Day arrived...
T-Day:  The Art of Remembering


And my fiance/husband was really worried.
When Your Fiance Gets a Transplant--Ben's View

But fortunately, the operation was a success!
We Did It!  And more tales from my hospital stay.

The crazy part:  this all happened while I was planning a wedding!

Every wedding planning post...EVER.




4 comments:

  1. Congratulations on your engagement and kidney transplant. Both are life changing moments.
    My mom had a kidney transplant 6 years ago this past May. I was the first person to test for her, but was ruled out for my own medical reasons. My uncle tested and was a match, which allowed me to be the care giver for both my mom and my uncle post surgery- and post hospital stay. She has been in great health since the transplant and truly has a new lease on life.
    I hope the best for you with the transplant and as you embark on your new life as a married couple.
    Best wishes,
    Becky Estes

    photographer
    www.2bephotography.com

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    1. Thank you Becky! I'm so glad to hear that your mom is healthy and doing well. Can't wait to get to a healthy state myself :)

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  2. WOWZA! This is impressive, and a lot to take on. Best of luck to you, Jewel.

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  3. Hey girl!!! Thank you so much for finding my blog and commenting. I'm so glad that I can now follow along with your blog. Your story is incredible! And that is so cool that you are now playing the bass guitar. I told my husband that you started and he was excited. Hope to see you sometime again soon, hopefully at DC Metro Church. XOXO

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